Everyone loves Tay Tay (Taylor Swift that is): 1989 Tour

The excitement started to build as we walked up to Levi's Stadium.  The last time I was here was when I went to Wrestlemania, which was a different kind of pandemonium.  Right when we got into the stadium, we had to take a pic with Tay Tay.  Sadly, this was the closest we got to T-Swizzle, but we <3 her nonetheless.  Another great thing about this concert is mother-daughter bonding.  Who else could bring a toddler and ageless mother together LOL. 

Patiently, we wait for her.  We were serenaded by Shawn  Mendes..."I'll be needing stitches!"  We play with the bracelets in front of our seats.  "Mine doesn't work, Mom..."  Mine doesn't either, sweetheart.  We were fooled.  As the lights went out, all the bracelets in the stadium lit up.  "Welcome to New York!  Welcome to New York!"

One of my fave songs that she performed was a rendition of Trouble, which was slow-tempo and moody.  At first, I didn't even know that's what she was singing.

Only Tay Tay could make singing on a bench so cool!  She then cuts to Style and I couldn't believe it, Julia Roberts!  I heard the night before that Fifth Harmony performed, and I was bummed that they were not there on the night we went.  I am happy for Lil Mynx who got a chance to get the Tay-Stamp-of-Approval. 

 Of course, the night ended with "Shake it off!  Shake it off!"  My daughter fell asleep before her two favorite songs and told me to wake her up, but she missed it =/  I took vid for her though.  Confetti was everywhere and grown, grown folk along with kids, teens, tweens were singing Shake it Off in unison.  That is the universality of Tay Tay.  Don't forget her amazing fashion sense!  That emerald green dress!!

Upcycling: DIY Tree Stump End Table

It has been a loooong time since I have posted anything!  I really wanted to share my latest pinterest/diy attempt.  We were "trimming" down a large tree and had several tree stumps as a result.  I had seen pins and pictures of people using tree stumps as end or coffee tables.  I wanted to try it!  After all, I had the basic materials, how hard could it be?  Well there is a reason why people sell these for $100...However, after I finished this project, I felt like I accomplished something!

First, you have to access to a tree stump (check).

Second, to make your life easier, you should preferably leave them outside to dry out.  This is essential and may take months before the bark begins to peel.  I used a flat paint scraping tool, and then later (way later), a hammer to assist in stripping down the bark.  I definitely could've benefited from having better tools, but I wanted to use what I had around the house.  The one tree stump pictured, took me a few hours every other week or so because even when left outside, it would become slightly moist, and never really dry out.  Despite the extra work, I was determined to finish the project so I continued chipping away at it (no pun intended).

Third, sand it:

 

I cannot claim credit for this step, as my husband did this by hand!  We had a tool, but the sandpaper was not catching.

Fourth, prime it:

 

I can't claim credit for this step either.

Fifth, spray paint, two coats and spray sealant on it (joint effort).  Of course, I had to pick a fabulous gold color!

 Lastly, I favor gorgeous decoration and utility so ta-da!

 You can put your drink on it or...

 

Use it for assistance to stand up!  

Mommy Make-over: Ombre Hair

As the weeks have gone by and you are in the "home-stretch" of pregnancy, you continue to cope with the changes happening in your life and to your body.  So in order to do so, I made a vow to myself to do one nice thing for myself for every week that I make it to the 39 weeks!  One of the nice things that I was most excited about was my hair cut/hair dye.

According to the stylist extraordinaire, Ms. Tamy, I have "virgin hair," meaning I have never dyed it before. The last time I was preggie, I got a long bob-cut, which I enjoyed, but I began to miss my long locks.  I mulled over it for a month about what I wanted to do.  Of course, I took to Pinterest to help me decide, and the hair style that I most gravitated to was ombre hair.  The new trend, which I like even better is sombre hair (subtle ombre).  I don't really care for the ombre hair that when styled straight, you can see blocks of color, or lines breaking up the colors.  So I was a bit nervous going into Mondi Salon, but Tamy said, "Don't worry."  So I didn't, particularly since she seemed super confident, showed me pics of past work, and I was referred to her by a friend that I trusted!

BEFORE

I have always loved my jet black hair and didn't feel the desire to dye it, but I wanted something different as I am going into this new phase in my life =)

I have to say that Tamy is the best stylist that I have ever seen!  I usually walk out of the salon feeling disappointed at how the haircut turned out.  She listened and actually followed through with what I wanted (keeping my hair long, the sombre colors, and styling it the way I wanted it).  The makings of a great stylist is not just their talent (which is a large percentage), but can you talk with them for the hours that you are there.  The answer is YES!  You can talk to her about anything--ethnic culture, pop culture, etc.  It's also nice that she had old school Hip Hop/R&B/Pop radio going on in the background!  She is just so friendly.  Plus, she works on Sundays!  Her attention to detail is impeccable, no rushing here!

THE RESULTS: AN AMAZING MOMMY MAKEOVER!

And shameless selfies to promote Tamy's work!  If you are interested in making an appointment, let me know =)  I know I was very happy after this wonderful hair make-over!!

My Little Fashionista

The majority of things that come in mini sizes are adorable.  Most of my daughter's clothes have been hand-me-downs, allowing us to mix and match a variety of pieces.  Sometimes, she gets special treats for presents.  There is nothing like when you are a young'in playing dress up.

This orange wonder is from GAP, which was very affordable because GAP was running a promotion: Additional 50% off of sale items.  Since it is long in length on her, she will be able to enjoy it for sometime.  This is the perfect summer dress, particularly when you are sweating 24/7.

Here, she was "driving" the fire truck and accessorized the outfit with a kiddie fire hat.  She chose to pair her hot pink Hello Kitty slippers with the dress.

The dress was even great for when she was riding the pony...

 And for when she was goofing around...

This was her Fourth of July outfit.  Of course, she had to have princess hair with the Red and White, in addition to her flip flops.

Those 1969 Gap mini-skinny jeans doe...

This dress was also a brand-new, hand-me down.  The mint toggle sweater was a gift from our friend.  Since she was running around all day, she wore princess sneakers.

What NOT to do with your boots: RIP my leather friends!

We have had many good club nights together and shopping trips.  I know that you are material goods, but nonetheless, we have been together many years, more years that my daughter is old right now.  Okay so this is a bit dramatic so I will go back to reality now...

Today, I went to the cobbler/shoe repair to finally fix a pair of pumps (cobalt mary janes that I wrote about) and two pairs of boots.  It was an expensive quote (over $100) but I'm hoping heel repair, re-soling, and protective covers are worth it.  The most expensive pair that I brought was determined to be "un-fixable," according to the cobbler.  Why?  Well take a look...

The soles look pretty bad, but that's now what deemed them DONE.  

This heel was the final factor, as there is not even a metal piece to it left.

Apparently, if I kept walking on these, the heels would eventually snap.  So I guess these boots were NOT made for walking and dancing.  

It is such a shame because I was looking forward to adding them back to my shoe collection.  

My Dream Closet Come True!!

For my whole life, like many of us who LOVE fashion, particularly shoes, I have wanted a gorgeous closet.  I was definitely tired of sharing a tiny walk-in with my husband, trying to squash all my clothes on two hanging bars (one time one of the bars came flying down), and both were always sunken in the middle.  For Mother's Day, my husband (assistant to uncle) and uncle completed this beauty for me!  Let me take you through the process.  First, I will show you the full panoramic, and then show you all the hard work it took to get there.

This was a very long process  that began with removing the wood paneling off of the lower half of the walls, including the base boards.  Then hubby and uncle sanded down the wall, placed mud over it, and sanded it down again.  Ideally, new dry wall would be put up, but that is an even bigger project.

My hubby woke up before work to paint and came home after work to paint.  The teal color always seems peaceful.  He replaced the baseboards (from Home Depot) and painted them white.  We put up the chandelier from Ikea.

Then came the structures, which were purchased from the Container Store (Elfa closet solutions). The Container Store representatives were super helpful, as we changed the schematics several times. We also got a quote from Home Depot for $8000 ($1,000 of which was for installation) for free-standing closet solutions.  I'll leave it up to the reader to decipher why I chose the Elfa system. One caveat to the system is the instructions do not specify how far apart to put the two structures. Luckily, uncle is a pro. Usually these structures go on sale in December, but that is a bit far so hubby used coupons and gift cards to receive discounts. 

Then came the fun part!!  Organizing it!! Sneakers, pumps, sandals, boots! Shirts and sweaters!

Dresses!  Jackets! More pumps and boots!

Then I added my "Queen" chair that I purchased from Joss & Main.  I also included a rocking, small ottoman that was given to me by my good friends.  The side table was DIY by my hubby and me (two Ikea Lack tables spray painted and glued together) + nailhead design.  Placed personal touches, including Bazaar Magazines, which always has artistic, beautiful covers, and magazine storage (below). 

A great find was this large mirror from Home Goods!  My close friend and hubby installed this, which provides a great finishing touch.  The mirror was $100--what a steal!  I went to Ross, Home Goods, and Kohl's for finishing touches at great prices as well (e.g., jewelry organizers, pretty storage boxes). 

How to dress the baby bump!

Pregnancy has led to me wearing my clothes in a creative way.  It is always a challenge to figure out how I will dress my (baby) bump! The first rule of thumb that I have lived by is to not buy too many new clothes that I will never use post-pregnancy.  My close friend gladly gave me all of her pregnancy clothes once she had her second child so I've been able to get by with a combination of her clothes + my old pregnancy clothes + dresses.  Some women love their clothes to hug their baby bump tightly, but for me, my second rule of thumb is to be comfortable.  As such, I tend to wear more loose fitting clothes.  Here is the development from 4-7 months:

4 months

My saving grace has been jeggings (given to me by my close friend)...they stretch and can accessorize with any dress that I wear.

5 months

This dress was given to me by one of my best friends.  Free-flowing dresses have been very comfortable so as to not to restrict the bump.  Again paired this with jeggings.

6 months

This dress is near and dear to my heart because I have worn it for two pregnancies.  This was from H&M, purchased over 2 years ago for $10!!  It was such a find and it is one of the most comfortable dresses that I own.  The great things about this dress is that you can wear it post-pregnancy because you can adjust the waist-line with the string.

7 months

This was a shirt recently given to me by my close friend.  As you can see, the baby bump is happily growing. 

7 months

There is nothing that I have loved more than wearing this transparent, cobalt shirt (of course with a loose tank underneath).  These stretchy bootleg pants from NY&CO have also been worn through two pregnancies.  They are comfortable for the weekend and at work.  Now that I am in the home stretch, I have to shelve my heels for a few months, but if you can see, I am wearing some sparkly, gold flats (my compromise)

Now let's see where 8 & 9 months will lead me...